Be a Gentleman

Moderation, decorum, and neatness, distinguish the gentleman; he is at all times affable, diffident, and studious to please.

Intelligent and polite, his behaviour is pleasant and graceful. When he enters the dwelling of an inferior, he endeavours to hide, if possible, the difference between their ranks in life; ever willing to assist those around him, he is neither unkind, haughty, nor overbearing.

In the mansions of the rich, the correctness of his mind induces him to bend to etiquette, but not to stoop to adulation; correct principle cautions him to avoid the gaming-table, inebriety, or any other foible that could occasion him self-reproach.

Pleased with the pleasures of reflection, he rejoices to see the gaieties of society, and is fastidious upon no point of little import.

Appear only to be a gentleman, and its shadow will bring upon you contempt:

Be a gentleman, and its honours will remain ever: after you are dead.